Fool Me Once

When I say something like "I won't say anything".  Then you say "oh, it's okay".  That means "you can say something".  So then I say something.   But "oh, it's okay" didn't really mean "it's okay".   It meant "it's okay, but it's not okay until I tell you it's okay, but I won't tell you when it's okay, because I didn't really mean it's okay".  Okay?????  LOL